Frustrated because the man in your life is oblivious to what makes your libido soar? Don’t hide unsatisfied under the duvet. Wish you had a more satisfying s3x life? Unveil in this article is the six most common things that women wish men knew about s3x.
Read on for six secrets to a healthier, happier love life.
We can’t turn our libidos on like a light switch:
Guys seem ready for s3x anytime, anywhere, but for most women it’s not so easy. “Men can get erections from their genitals brushing against their clothing, they might expect that women can get aroused quickly when actually it takes much longer, and it’s not just about the physical, the mental stuff has to be in place, too.” The mental weight from daily stresses such as work deadlines and household duties can negatively impact a woman’s s3xual appetite. Most men are able to ignore such worries and dive right in, creating a situation where they can’t understand why their partner doesn’t automatically jump into a steamy clinch, too.
S3x isn’t over when you have an orgasm:
Just because men have reached completion doesn’t mean that the s3xual escapade is over. You just assume that it’s over and that’s unfair to women.
Women aren’t all the same, ask what we would like in bed:
Do have the feeling that your guy has used the same moves on every partner that he’s ever had? Does he assume that what works on another woman, works on you, too? Sorry, ladies. You might have to accept some of the blame for this one. Women don’t often tell their partners how things make them feel. They want their partners to be mind readers, men could use help in terms of honest communication.
We’re visual, too:
Women primp, pose and pluck themselves into $exual perfection. Lingerie, perfume and questionable personal hygiene. A little more effort would be appreciated, male partners should be reminded that women are visual, too. Men, take note! “Take care of yourself. That stubble that looks so cool is not so great for making out, or receiving 0ral s3x. Manly fingernails can hurt when you’re manually stimulating your partner. A man’s attention to personal hygiene is a big turn-on for a woman.
An orgasm through penetration isn’t the be all and end all:
Men think that women should always have an orgasm. In movies and P0rnography, women are having orgasms at the drop of a hat, so men are getting an unrealistic picture of what women’s orgasms are really like. For many women, orgasms can be difficult to achieve, and their partner might take it personally if she can’t have one. It’s crazy for men to think that they must give their partners an orgasm; they should banish it from their thoughts because it puts pressure on them to be s3xual dynamos, and it puts pressure on their female partners to perform or it leads women to faking which doesn’t help anybody.