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We Have Stories From Our ”Talk To Me Thursday”.. Please Read

Posted by on September 9, 2016.

These are stories about what’s bothering some of us on this blog.

The aim here is to open up an avenue where people who are hurting, people who have obviously messed up their lives but deep in their hearts want to find their way to the right place come to rest and find support.

There’s a rule here – every hate, negative comment on our ‘Talk to Me  Thursday” will be deleted.

So many people are suffering, many depressed people don’t even have a name for their predicament, or even know where to turn for help.

Guys, let’s create a forum that will help them. Let’s use A1000Laff  blog ‘Talk to Me Thursday’ and help everyone that sends in their mails.

Dipressed  Man

I want my details to be witheld…
I am a married man, but what am facing is a problem though am not
financially boyant, but i see myself as a weak man because wathever i
tell my wife not to do she will never follow my word but later she
will be telling me not to annoyed, i always think deep down in my mind
that is it because of my situation or wath but am always dipressed, i
love her so much but her attitude is driving me crazy. Please what can
i do? i don’t what to be a useless head for my family.

My daughter freely giving out her salary

Please my fellow A1000Laff’s listen to my story and advise me. My daughter is a house officer (medical Doctor) in a federal hospital.

I told her to be saving for her further studies as the economy is not smiling on anybody now but out of pity she always gives out her money to vulnerable patients who couldn’t pay for their drugs and I advice her against that. Since then my conscience has been disturbing me.

Pls I need your advice

(Family issue) Anonymous

Hi  Agba-Oye, trust your doing ok…

Either a story or a topic of discussion, I can’t say. Firstly I would say inter religious marriages shouldn’t happen,if you are not ready to practice a mutual one with your partner.i would say that’s the origin of my problems,because I know if I had a particular religion from birth,my spiritual life would have been better and I would have had better exposure.

Am not a kid but still under my parents as a matter of fact my dad is more of a surveillance camera,just doesn’t give you breathing space. infact I cant live my life until I have broken myself out of the house which is only achievable by marriage getting a job after service hasn’t been easy,infact all my mind is to just get a job that takes me out as early as possible and brings me home late,i don’t know what it is to be at liberty to make your own choices,there’s always something sinister about everything according to my dad.

My siblings don’t have much of say in things in fact they aren’t doing so well.‎Some would say one is lazy,no,far from lazy it’s just you can’t make some decisions or take up jobs because they don’t want you to get home late,and by you coming home you aren’t even engaging yourself in anything. I haven’t even had the best orientation, don’t go to places so how would I even meet someone that would would help me out.

My case is just a case of an adult living and thinking like a teenager, people don’t actually know the amount of things that piles up in one’s mind.

I would appreciate a job that takes me out and brings me back late,am taking up a teaching soon though…I still thank God that am not starving but looking forward to being “belleful” and also enjoying my life,being independent. I need a life of fulfilment, a shaped life and not pretending and hiding to do things at this stage,like going to church and visiting places.

I would appreciate a reply, even it’s soothing words of encouragement

Take good care of you.my regards to your family


3 bedroom in Enugu for rent

Hello Agba-Oye,

How are you today? Please kindly post this in your blog.

Please I am looking for a 3 bedroom flat in Enugu . Anyone with useful info should email me at match_15@yahoo.com.
My range is 350k annually.



Heavily pregnant & yet to buy a pin for my baby

Good morning Agba Man. How is your family? Hope you are good?

Pls I just want to remind you that the day u posted my story on Talk To Me Thurday & about 2 people requested for my email address because they said they would like to help me and up till now I haven’t heard from them.

Pls I am not commanding you I am only begging because my Edd is very close. I’m 28wks today.

Pls is there anyway u can remind them again through your blog in case if they have forgotten.

Thanks & God bless you


If you have anything bothering your mind and want people to advice you on it…kindly send it to my mail mikee76431@gmail.com and it will be posted next friday…




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10 Responses

  1. pls i want to be part of dis programme,enlighten me

    by Anonymous on Sep 9, 2016 at 10:11 am

  2. plis enlighten ME

    by Olabisi Alex Adeyemo on Sep 9, 2016 at 10:14 am


    by Johnkennedy on Sep 9, 2016 at 10:35 am

  4. hmm… I think this forum will be useful

    by justice on Sep 9, 2016 at 11:05 am

  5. It well with u guys

    by Isoji on Sep 9, 2016 at 11:51 am

  6. Okay

    by bisola on Sep 9, 2016 at 3:15 pm

  7. well each topic should be posted alone so u can hear d view of others or else u guys ain’t expecting our opinions

    by Deraababy on Sep 9, 2016 at 6:00 pm

  8. Matured Minds Don’t Rely On Their Parent After Graduation, I Mean Higher Learning Institute..How Wil Ur Dad Control You Anyhow Afta Savice, Dat Means U Haven’t Matured Bkos If U Hav Mature, You Wil Let Him Knw Dat Ur Mate Is Runing His/her Own Family Outsyd There Bt U Ar There Eating Unda Ur Parent And U Say You Enjoy Lyf, Bro You Are Sleeping, Wake Up Man…Legend Say

    by Anonymous on Sep 9, 2016 at 11:13 pm

  9. i agree with deraababy

    by david on Sep 9, 2016 at 11:33 pm

  10. Please am searching for sme old stories UNFULFIL PROMISES

    by Endurance on Dec 28, 2016 at 6:47 pm

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